Kinky women in Rochester

I’m looking a mutually beneficial relationship. I’m a switch and a babygirl looking for her daddy. **Desires and Fantasies** It's a secret

Submissive Bbw looking for a relationship with her Dom. I'm looking for my best friend, lover, partner, companion and my Sir. I'm looking for someone to guide me through the lifestyle. I have never been " trained" and have only recently begun to explore the lifestyle although I have been interested for 30 years. I have always had vanilla boyfriends and spouses. Looking for my one to take me to the next adventure in life... I go by Jennifer not Jenn...but Jenniferfrog doesn't have the same flow...lol.....for those I didn't answer a chat...I was recently involved but that has ended so I'm looking again...

Whimsical/eclectic modern femme. I have too many thoughts, and no rizz but all personality 😭🤣. I’m looking for low-pressure vibes, fun conversations, mutual obsession for 3-5 business days, and send + receive sexy pictures and videos. I’m sassy, attentive, and my face usually speaks before my words do. I value personality, honest intent and polarity.

Looking to build friendships and beyond. Big lover of food, critters. and music. I have a boyfriend, but we're both open to explore :)

nerdy, hippie-nymph, with golden retriever energy. sensual submissive, worshipper, bondage slut, feral fuck bunny, energy player. I like to build a bit of a rapport. No not raptor. Although, dinosaurs are super cool. I still play battleship. Classically trained in 2 instruments. I guess that explains the oral fixation. Submissive, kinky, but most of all fun as hell! Energy, communication, and being silly are so sexy. I love having fun, but not at the expense of my or your wellbeing. trust and communication are super important. i love praise, however, please don't call me a "good girl" while we're getting to know each other. you can call me Bambi or Bunny. always be kind. love ya, mean it, byeeeeee. ps: condoms are super sexy.

Im an attention seeking exhibitionist with a praise kink. I want you to see my body and want more. I want to play dirty role play games while youre sitting at work. I love sharing pics and exchanging dirty messages so if thats your idea of a good time feel free to slip on in ;) im a smut reader with a wild imagination. do with that info what you will. ;) ask me anything, im an open book ^_^ kinks include but not limited to: Exhibitionism CNC predator/prey anal nipple clamps general bdsm rough choking biting hair pulling orgasm denial edging help me add to the list 😈

hidden pic, no pic - dont bother. im not paying to see you… questions? just ask.. dont tell me you have a question. you dont know me, clearly you have questions.. 🙄 im not trying to love you. im not looking to hound you all day long. i am far from simple-minded. filth to philosophy. no couples (nothing against you sweetie, i just dont share nicely) chat here sucks…🙄 ask for platforms..

well I'm a tattooed, *** loving, artist. and artist of many mediums. I love to cook and bake. I love to explore with food and expirement. I'm shy but quite the kinky little bunny when I'm very kinky when the times right.

Just a Morticia looking for her Gomez, the 1960s John Astin version, not the neo-hipster goth versions. I'm an Alpha Sub. Seeking a Primal Dom with rope skills. I enjoy rope and leather bondage, impact play and sensory play. I'm ETHICALLY NON-MONOGAMOUS not Polyamorous. I'm not closeted about my sexuality or my kinks. I am not interested in anyone under 40. Boundaries: No ***/*** No Gags/Collars/Leashes No Race Play (Master/Slave titles and Dynamics, QOS, etc.) No *** Play (Yes I am specifically speaking about CNC, but also "safe words", versions of consent, red/yellow/green) No bodily fluids not normally involved in sex No Breath Play No Latex (I'm allergic) No Sharps Regular STI testing (with HSV testing) REQUIRED Condoms (non-latex) REQUIRED I am the anarchist leftist Trumpers are worried about. I don't play with Conservatives, Republicans and Centrists. If you won't discuss politics, then don't bother me. I am AROMANTIC, I do NOT experience emotions the way most people do, and I do not experience Romantic Love. I thought I did once, but it was just a toxic attachment cultivated by a Cowardly Narcissist (aka Covert Narc). I am not a TOY. I am Much Muchier Day By Day, if you want Less go seek Less. I can be a Brat, because I like pushing buttons. You probably can't handle me, but give it your best shot. If you want an actual shot start with telling me who's really in charge? What's the difference between Arrogance and Confidence? Be prepared for lengthy conversations. You can't earn my submission if you can't understand my mind. I don't owe you kindness.

Dear visitors , currently looking for a submissive play friend (female) the kinkier the better.. (preferred to like men sexually as well) open to convo with all 💕 Love, A sensual switch brat who loves Daddys 😘

I’m a tattooed Latina who loves being creative and getting stoned. I’m a charmer 💋 I’m a switch and I’m down for any dynamic. Just want to see what’s out there and see who wants to worship me

welcome to my wall, desires and needs as i feel they might be, its an evolving place! the mental aspect of this culture has me enraptured. power exchange as it contains trust, vulnerability, accountability, and responsibility is especially an interest. the last 10+ years have been very vanilla, so just assume we are starting with an open book with only a few cliff notes written in it. 4/8/26 update Ok, here's the deal. Ive been on here about 2 ish months. And on fetlife, kinda joined a club and im currently second guessing everything i thought i knew and wanted. I was so sure I was a solid sub, and a brat, etc. But now im finding i really enjoy letting my more dominant side through. So may lead to being a switch? Idk. Trying everything out so i can see how i like stuff. Is this a ride you want a ticket for? feel free to pass if you dont want to put in the work with me. 2/26 im currently a bratty alpha sub but evolving, . its not in my nature to be *** or give it up easily. i dont trust easily and i guard my peace, i hold A- type jobs (control freak) but in my private life i want to feel safe and taken care of. i am very good at quickly learning the strengths, weakness, and insecurities of my partner that would lead to unpredictability ie; lack of control, temper/anger, insecurities, ego. i have my own insecurities and weakness of course, im not immune to the human condition. im looking for a partner not a fuck boy or drop in.. i know this isnt an easy ask, im very open to meeting and seeing where things go as long as intensions are known on both sides . i dont engage in intimacy without connection, both mental and emotional, i dont relax/enjoy/engage without trust. my love language is caring for someone, pushing buttons to receive repercussions, bringing them pleasure. confidence is key, not aggression. if you don't know the difference, learn it! in a partner, i want a Man, be Calm, Capable, Confident, and Kind. these attributes belong to a person who can truly handle themselves and their partner without anger and ***. if you just want rough sex im not interested. i deeply yearn, seriously desire to feel delicate and girly. Im a 180# professional chef, horse trainer, former powerlifter, defensive pita..this doesnt mean im into age play or want a sugar daddy, it means my partner needs to be more masculine than i am, able to play a little rough, and not be intimidated by me.

Boy mommy anime theater26🎭 Snap princessnessa2 Ig Anime_sexxia I'm here to find a real and new FWB. Yes, I want more kids. I'm a family-oriented mom★let's connect❤️

I don't get along with fascists. interests: natures, hiking, mycology, hula hoops, live music, bread baking, cooking from scratch Turn ons: intuitive, emotional intelligence, stability, wisdom, empathy

it’s what I want, when I say finger me in public, control my toy in public, lay down so I can tie you to the bed and use u. whatever mama wants mama gets. Now where’s my good boy 😏 I’m looking to play out a cuck scenario- cuck and bull apply via message

Yes, I exist outside this app. If you recognize me, we probably already have something in common. A little shy and slightly skittish at first, but I warm up… if you’re worth it. Discretion and respect are non-negotiable. Fun opening lines > “hi, how are you?” I don’t check this all the time, so a little patience goes a long way 😅

Bisexual gal, engaged to a loving (yet very vanilla) man, looking for a female domme to satiate my x-rated cravings. Pet play welcomed/encouraged, but open to a good time regardless 💋

If you start off a conversation trashy you’re not for me! I am trying to find my other piece of the puzzle and that match will be dominant and know how to get me if he wants me. I am simply not interested in anything else… don’t waste my time! Also, NO ONE that’s real just tells all up front so don’t!

Hello My Freaky Little Darlings (quoted from Skinner A League of Extraordinary Gentleman) I have an overactive imagination, I love to read and write, so I have folders full of stories, fantasies, musings and ideas and would love to hear your feedback on them if and when I unscramble my brain enough to finish one and then post it. That being said I love good conversation and good company where we can bond over not just the kinky stuff but books, movies, tv shows, music and the other real world stuff too. But, I of course want to pick your deliciously dirty little minds and learn all those beautifully taboo secrets to better my writing. And maybe if enough trust is built I would like to actually find a dom again and explore some of these wonderful things firsthand it really has been too long since I've been able to participate, I do miss it so... Big Love BB 😘💕 P.S. Okay so my little story has taken off a bit... So I will answer the most asked questions I have gotten so far... -Yes, I can write you a short story or scene it actually sounds like a lot of fun but you will need to provide me with the details you want to be included in it (such as place, even time of day, characters and if you want them to be referred to as generic he/she/they [although same gender couples or groups of many may become confusing if you don't give your characters names just saying], all the things you want to be used in said story [tools, toys, enhancements and props etc.] and any other important details you feel worth mentioning and yes we can discuss it further if need be. -NO, I WILL NOT FEATURE IN YOUR STORY END OF DISCUSSION -I reserve the right to use your story if I ever have the guts to publish it, as it is I do plan on publishing it here in stories (it would be nice to put them all together in an anthology). -When publishing here or anywhere it will always have your credit with it, for example per requested by (username or real name whichever you prefer) or Created for with details provided by etc... unless you ask me not to. -One person actually offered to pay for a story, I had never thought of asking for payment and thought that was very sweet. So yes, it would be nice to be paid for them, and we can discuss that as well...I guess. TBC...

29 | western ny | queer | poly & partnered ✨ i am *not* looking for: -immediately explicit dms or unsolicited pics -long distance/cyber ✨ i *am* looking for: -queer, neurodivergent, or sober friends -play partners who are willing to spend time getting to know each other & building trust first -safety first (regular testing, using protection) -learning more about the local bdsm/kink/fetish scene -exploring different kinds of play (roleplay, bondage, rope play, etc.)

My birthday is July 24 not 23 idk why it keeps doing that I'm looking for friends I'm new to this experience just friends and learn I'm a switch I can be friendly but aggressive please don't use me as meat just because I'm a switch I'm just here for friends and something casual

FIRST AND FOREMOST I AM NOT A SUBMISSIVE NOR WILL I BECOME ONE FOR ANYONE! MOVE ALONG IF THAT IS YOUR END GOAL SINCE NONE OF YOU BOTHER TO READ THE WHOLE DAMN PROFILE! Also, while this is somewhat a sex oriented app, that is the last thing on my mind. I need a real connection before intimacy is even a thought. Don't message me immediately offering to let me peg you or whatever. Actually get to know me and stop thinking with your tiny penises that probably won't sexually satisfy me anyway. Pro-human rights and equality for all. I'm a full-time mom who is polyamorous. I'm demisexual and really need to know someone before I'm willing to sleep with them and require full panel STD testing before intimacy occurs or is even a thought. I'm super nerdy and mostly a homebody. I don't do NSA! if that is all you are interested in, kindly find someone else to flirt with. Also, not interested in having my time wasted or being lied to. So, if you are usually a flake, kindly find someone else to chat up. I don't have time for bullshit. I also don't have time to help anyone commit adultery. If you are only looking for sexual relationships, I'm not the one for you. I'm demisexual and require a connection before anything intimate is even on the table. Also, just because it says I'm looking for friends, that doesn't mean friends with benefits. I'm only looking for maids/butlers, submissives, slaves, pets, and toys. I'm also willing to consider switches but have some guidelines regarding that. I am willing to chat with fellow Doms and Dommes as friends, however. But seriously, cucks and simps only apply to serve me. please have your own profile actually filled out

switch looking for experienced D&Dfree daddy Dom at this time

Poly, bi/pan, demisexual, not easily interested no profile pic=no response not interested in long distance

Submissive Bbw looking for a relationship with her Dom. I'm looking for my best friend, lover, partner, companion and my Sir. I'm looking for someone to guide me through the lifestyle. I have never been " trained" and have only recently begun to explore the lifestyle although I have been interested for 30 years. I have always had vanilla boyfriends and spouses. Looking for my one to take me to the next adventure in life... I go by Jennifer not Jenn...but Jenniferfrog doesn't have the same flow...lol.....for those I didn't answer a chat...I was recently involved but that has ended so I'm looking again...

I’m looking a mutually beneficial relationship. I’m a switch and a babygirl looking for her daddy. **Desires and Fantasies** It's a secret

Whimsical/eclectic modern femme. I have too many thoughts, and no rizz but all personality 😭🤣. I’m looking for low-pressure vibes, fun conversations, mutual obsession for 3-5 business days, and send + receive sexy pictures and videos. I’m sassy, attentive, and my face usually speaks before my words do. I value personality, honest intent and polarity.

Looking to build friendships and beyond. Big lover of food, critters. and music. I have a boyfriend, but we're both open to explore :)

Boy mommy anime theater26🎭 Snap princessnessa2 Ig Anime_sexxia I'm here to find a real and new FWB. Yes, I want more kids. I'm a family-oriented mom★let's connect❤️

I am really sweet I am short and chubby and I love ***s I have 2 dogs thinking of getting a cat

hidden pic, no pic - dont bother. im not paying to see you… questions? just ask.. dont tell me you have a question. you dont know me, clearly you have questions.. 🙄 im not trying to love you. im not looking to hound you all day long. i am far from simple-minded. filth to philosophy. no couples (nothing against you sweetie, i just dont share nicely) chat here sucks…🙄 ask for platforms..

I am deaf, I love freaky rough sex, I need someone show me the experience, I don’t need people rejecting me because of my deafness and apperance and I need 8 inch dick not less a inch thank you

Looking for a Sadist who can keep the shii on the DL 🤷🏼‍♀️ my man ain gonna know. he jus dont bma often enough for my satisfaction. chains whips zip ties ropes belts 😘 bruises are trophies ☺️😘😌

chubby, tall, brat who will ragebait tf out of you

Dear visitors , currently looking for a submissive play friend (female) the kinkier the better.. (preferred to like men sexually as well) open to convo with all 💕 Love, A sensual switch brat who loves Daddys 😘

Hello My Freaky Little Darlings (quoted from Skinner A League of Extraordinary Gentleman) I have an overactive imagination, I love to read and write, so I have folders full of stories, fantasies, musings and ideas and would love to hear your feedback on them if and when I unscramble my brain enough to finish one and then post it. That being said I love good conversation and good company where we can bond over not just the kinky stuff but books, movies, tv shows, music and the other real world stuff too. But, I of course want to pick your deliciously dirty little minds and learn all those beautifully taboo secrets to better my writing. And maybe if enough trust is built I would like to actually find a dom again and explore some of these wonderful things firsthand it really has been too long since I've been able to participate, I do miss it so... Big Love BB 😘💕 P.S. Okay so my little story has taken off a bit... So I will answer the most asked questions I have gotten so far... -Yes, I can write you a short story or scene it actually sounds like a lot of fun but you will need to provide me with the details you want to be included in it (such as place, even time of day, characters and if you want them to be referred to as generic he/she/they [although same gender couples or groups of many may become confusing if you don't give your characters names just saying], all the things you want to be used in said story [tools, toys, enhancements and props etc.] and any other important details you feel worth mentioning and yes we can discuss it further if need be. -NO, I WILL NOT FEATURE IN YOUR STORY END OF DISCUSSION -I reserve the right to use your story if I ever have the guts to publish it, as it is I do plan on publishing it here in stories (it would be nice to put them all together in an anthology). -When publishing here or anywhere it will always have your credit with it, for example per requested by (username or real name whichever you prefer) or Created for with details provided by etc... unless you ask me not to. -One person actually offered to pay for a story, I had never thought of asking for payment and thought that was very sweet. So yes, it would be nice to be paid for them, and we can discuss that as well...I guess. TBC...

I’m a tattooed Latina who loves being creative and getting stoned. I’m a charmer 💋 I’m a switch and I’m down for any dynamic. Just want to see what’s out there and see who wants to worship me

married woman who loves being with women. my husband doesn't mind. We want a woman to be with both of us. I love video games, football, reading and arts and crafts. My way of relaxing is traveling, watching horror, action, comedy, and thriller movies. Also playing my games.

looking for someone i get to have some fun with, i really want to meet some pretty girls. my boyfriend just wants to be able to play with me, but if open i dont mind at all if you want to play with him as well! 😋🦄 we will come to you and get a hotel and buy your fav drinks :)) 💕✨🪩

If you start off a conversation trashy you’re not for me! I am trying to find my other piece of the puzzle and that match will be dominant and know how to get me if he wants me. I am simply not interested in anything else… don’t waste my time! Also, NO ONE that’s real just tells all up front so don’t!

I'm figuring myself out as a lesbian, there's a lot of things I want to explore, for now I identify as a submissive bottom, I would like someone who teach me, guide me, and tell me what they want me to do. I have little to no experience, and I am excited to explore!

I am bisexual but not looking for men happily engaged just want a girlfriends that can spoil me and I will do the same Im very simple and would love to get to know you first and see where it goes I’m 32 and he is 38 homebodies,gamers and 420 friendly

I'm a fiery redhead with dangerous curves. I'm exploring new types of play and relationships. I'm bratty with some little intentions, mixed with submissive play, and a dash of tarnished princess. I recently found out I love flogging and spankings. I am constantly learning about myself and isnt that what life is about...learning. I am interested in learning more about my little side. I want to be spoiled, showered with cuddles, and reward sex. This is a position that whoever may fill it has to meet my standards. I can be bratty, it does go with the territory. With this being said, I'm very protective of myself. I'm not your traditional girl. Anyone who really knows me on here would probably agree. I don't need to be 'saved' per say, I take it as enhancements to my sexual life.

Bisexual gal, engaged to a loving (yet very vanilla) man, looking for a female domme to satiate my x-rated cravings. Pet play welcomed/encouraged, but open to a good time regardless 💋

I am new to this but very interested and curious to explore this space with someone willing to work with a newbie. Currently single and unsure about anything long term. Would love to be shown the ropes! ;)

Yes, I exist outside this app. If you recognize me, we probably already have something in common. A little shy and slightly skittish at first, but I warm up… if you’re worth it. Discretion and respect are non-negotiable. Fun opening lines > “hi, how are you?” I don’t check this all the time, so a little patience goes a long way 😅

welcome to my wall, desires and needs as i feel they might be, its an evolving place! the mental aspect of this culture has me enraptured. power exchange as it contains trust, vulnerability, accountability, and responsibility is especially an interest. the last 10+ years have been very vanilla, so just assume we are starting with an open book with only a few cliff notes written in it. 4/8/26 update Ok, here's the deal. Ive been on here about 2 ish months. And on fetlife, kinda joined a club and im currently second guessing everything i thought i knew and wanted. I was so sure I was a solid sub, and a brat, etc. But now im finding i really enjoy letting my more dominant side through. So may lead to being a switch? Idk. Trying everything out so i can see how i like stuff. Is this a ride you want a ticket for? feel free to pass if you dont want to put in the work with me. 2/26 im currently a bratty alpha sub but evolving, . its not in my nature to be *** or give it up easily. i dont trust easily and i guard my peace, i hold A- type jobs (control freak) but in my private life i want to feel safe and taken care of. i am very good at quickly learning the strengths, weakness, and insecurities of my partner that would lead to unpredictability ie; lack of control, temper/anger, insecurities, ego. i have my own insecurities and weakness of course, im not immune to the human condition. im looking for a partner not a fuck boy or drop in.. i know this isnt an easy ask, im very open to meeting and seeing where things go as long as intensions are known on both sides . i dont engage in intimacy without connection, both mental and emotional, i dont relax/enjoy/engage without trust. my love language is caring for someone, pushing buttons to receive repercussions, bringing them pleasure. confidence is key, not aggression. if you don't know the difference, learn it! in a partner, i want a Man, be Calm, Capable, Confident, and Kind. these attributes belong to a person who can truly handle themselves and their partner without anger and ***. if you just want rough sex im not interested. i deeply yearn, seriously desire to feel delicate and girly. Im a 180# professional chef, horse trainer, former powerlifter, defensive pita..this doesnt mean im into age play or want a sugar daddy, it means my partner needs to be more masculine than i am, able to play a little rough, and not be intimidated by me.