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Experienced submissive/slave I’ve been active in the lifestyle for 5 years. To me, this journey is 90% mental captivate my mind, and everything else will follow naturally. I’ve served in the past and find deep fulfillment in surrender. I’m drawn to courageous, self-aware Dominants who value trust, presence, and the power of true connection. Seeking a strong, grounded Master who understands the depth of this dynamic
Female (37) Rochester, New York
I’m looking a mutually beneficial relationship. I’m a switch and a babygirl looking for her daddy. **Desires and Fantasies** It's a secret
Female (40) Rochester, New York
Note: The chest tattoo I had done at end of July 2025 if there's any confusion. Just your wholesome whore next door. I'll be your latest obsession. I give it 2, maybe 3 weeks, tops, before you move on to your new one. My skill set includes falling for the wrong man. I'm a complete audiophile slut. Being vocal and dirty talk is essential.
Female (45) Rochester, New York
Submissive Bbw looking for a relationship with her Dom. I'm looking for my best friend, lover, partner, companion and my Sir. I'm looking for someone to guide me through the lifestyle. I have never been " trained" and have only recently begun to explore the lifestyle although I have been interested for 30 years. I have always had vanilla boyfriends and spouses. Looking for my one to take me to the next adventure in life... I go by Jennifer not Jenn...but Jenniferfrog doesn't have the same flow...lol
Female (53) Rochester, New York
Would you rather live a second wondering what might be? Let's explore your fantasies together, whatever they might be.
Female (33) Rochester, New York
Enjoy outdoors, bonfires, hiking, camping, glamping, horror movies, beach, traveling and reading. Face Sitting Bondage Gag Ball Leash Sadist Being Served⛓️🛐⛓️ Switch (?'s)
Female (49) Rochester, New York
I am about 5’2 and on the curvier/BBW side. I love the outdoors, video games,anime and occasionally going out for a drink. 420friendly. But not really anything else (sorry no smokers ) Im looking for well, just someone who is into a more kink related meetups and maybe more social meetups along with that for the long term :)
Female (30) Rochester, New York
well I'm a tattooed, *** loving, artist. and artist of many mediums. I love to cook and bake. I love to explore with food and expirement. I'm shy but quite the kinky little *** when I'm very kinky when the times right.
Female (32) Rochester, New York
Getting tired of dating apps where men seem exceptional on the first date and then show their true colors. So maybe this will prove to be a good alternative distraction, idk. Currently going through a separation, but a primarily friendly and peaceful one. Looking for new experiences and opportunities. I do 🌶 content for fun, but I have no intention of sharing the link with anyone here, I just like to be up front about it. Not interested in spontaneous hook ups, trading pics, or sexting. Not necessarily looking for a relationship either, but connection first, sex second. Don't slide into my DMs with anything other than respect. Yes we're all here for kink, but a fundamental part of kink culture is respect, imo. If you're not about that, move on. If you're significantly taller than me (over 6', regardless of gender), fit enough to throw me around, respectful enough for me to let you, and confident enough not to feel the need to prove your dominance as soon as we start talking, you might be my type.
Female (36) Rochester, New York
Hii. I’m Jenn. I’m new here. Looking for education, guidance, patience. I’m still working on figuring my interests and likes out. I’d love help figuring out those kinks! 🥴 I consider myself simple, a bit weird, and silly. I’m not dominant or bossy. I am shy. Let’s chat! Laugh, rant, experience. Hopefully, nice to meet you.
Female (30) Rochester, New York
Newer slave wanting to be dominated and tamed! Wanting a strict and controlling Daddy. Kinks: choking, gagging, tying up, restraining, ***, degrading, being used as a toy, spanking, rough, hardcore, public, free use
Female (28) Rochester, New York
I’m a sadistic bitch who loves to beat people but I’m also a sweet little kitten who loves being petted. My sadist side is non-sexual, but my kitten side is sexual. I very rarely bottom. I am married and I LOVE my husband. He is my best friend and the person I want to be with more than anyone. If you are cool with that, then we can be friends. I am not looking for a romantic partner at all. I have AuDHD and can see through peoples bullshit. I don’t like games. If you want something from me be straightforward and I will pay you that same respect. I am always willing to teach people who are new to the BDSM world more about it. On the non kink side, I love to read, I love video games, movies, and books. I like to stay busy and hate being bored, so I'm always on the go. My favorite sport is tennis, but I also like hiking and swimming. Some important things to know about me: -I am a very confident and strong willed woman. -If you don't treat me with respect, then I won't associate with you. Respect is extremely important to me. -I'm a super busy person so if I don't respond to you right away, it's not me being rude, I might just not have enough time to think of a good response. -Personal hygiene is very important to me (as I hope it is for everyone). -I don’t like sex talk aimed at me (dirty talk), it gives me the ick. FAQ No, I will not send you nude photos or have cybersex with you. I’m not into that. No, I will not meet you in private. I only meet people at public events like munches or parties. No, I will not give you my phone number. I have discord and can chat with you there if you don’t want to chat on this app. Yes, I can tell if you haven’t read my bio and are just messaging me the same thing you message every other person on here. I will not respond. I am worth more than a generic message. If you want to see photos of me, go to my Fetlife page. Same name as on here. 420 friendly. if you just want to chill and play Dead By Daylight with me, hit me up 🤙 for the best chance of me responding, please include what you are looking to get out of contacting me (I.e., friendship, mentor, play partner, etc.). Thanks!
Female (31) Rochester, New York
nerdy hippie nymph with golden retriever energy. ready to put out some good vibes. please don't call me a "good girl" while we're getting to know each other. that's earned. and it is cringy to get a message that calls me that. you can call me Bambi or ***. I'm a natural sub. looking for my long term kink partner. if you're just interested in fucking and grabbing my hair, move on. I need substance, and I need to trust. I love having fun, but not at the expense of my or your wellbeing. curvy, nerdy, love laughing. please be local. alright, love ya, mean it, byeeeeee. ps: condoms are super sexy.
Female (41) Rochester, New York
I'm new to all this so please be patient with me 🙏🏻 I'm here to learn new things and meet new people, I'm very outgoing and will try my best to hold a conversation
Female (25) Rochester, New York
easy going and fun loving lol, talk to me and find out what I'm willing to do. also I do take dick pics as introductions lol if you want a rating just ask. tell me your kinkiest thoughts if you want to pay me for being gorgeous I'll take that too lmao
Female (22) Rochester, New York
I chew men up and spit them out. 🕷️ A LOT of spice a little nice. I’m interested in men who will get on all 4’s for me. The ones who look unsuspecting. I rarely submit to others. If you can tell me what to do then you can tell me what to do. Sapiosexual.
Female (25) Rochester, New York
submissive brat looking to have depraved conversations. I love ropes and toys and a bit of a fight, even if I act like I don’t like it ;) II just like to dirty talk with rough strangers, not looking for anything more. And a heads up, I don’t send pics. My profile is verified, so you know my profile pictures are me 💚 Please, please be creative; tell me what you’d do with me! There’s nothing thrilling about “hey how are you”
Female (31) Rochester, New York
Hiii, I'm Sarah. I like being submissive, but I havnt had a lot of experience with BDSM so im not sure about my limits. I'm looking to explore a bit more. Maybe im looking for friends, maybe more!
Female (21) Rochester, New York
I don't get along with fascists. interests: natures, hiking, mycology, hula hoops, live music, bread baking, cooking from scratch Turn ons: intuitive, emotional intelligence, stability, wisdom, empathy
Female (41) Rochester, New York
I've been told that I'm a little/brat. I make so many decisions throughout my day that when it comes to the bedroom I don't want to have to think about anything. I have very little experience in being tied up. I do absolutely love it. and will be an ass if it's been too long since I've been tied up. um. yeah. I still learning...
Female (41) Rochester, New York
28 | western ny | queer | poly & partnered ✨ i am *not* looking for: -immediately explicit dms or unsolicited pics -long distance/cyber ✨ i *am* looking for: -queer, neurodivergent, or sober friends -play partners who are willing to spend time getting to know each other & building trust first -safety first (regular testing, using protection) -learning more about the local bdsm/kink/fetish scene -exploring different kinds of play (roleplay, bondage, rope play, etc.)
Female (28) Rochester, New York
Softness is my spell. But don’t mistake it for weakness — I submit with intention, and I rise with precision. I want a man who earns his authority through devotion, who knows that worship isn’t beneath him — it’s how he ascends. I crave control dressed in reverence. And when I feel adored enough to bloom into power… I’ll take the lead. And you’ll love it. 🇯🇲, Anime, 420, Halloween, Moan collector, I bet I can make you melt first 💋💋
Female (26) Rochester, New York
Poly, bi/pan, demisexual, not easily interested no profile pic=no response not interested in long distance
Female (26) Rochester, New York
down to earth, kind,and fun girl. looking for more than a ONS. looking for ongoing NSA type of situation with a meaningful connection.
Female (49) Rochester, New York

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Would you rather live a second wondering what might be? Let's explore your fantasies together, whatever they might be.
Female (33) Rochester, New York
Submissive Bbw looking for a relationship with her Dom. I'm looking for my best friend, lover, partner, companion and my Sir. I'm looking for someone to guide me through the lifestyle. I have never been " trained" and have only recently begun to explore the lifestyle although I have been interested for 30 years. I have always had vanilla boyfriends and spouses. Looking for my one to take me to the next adventure in life... I go by Jennifer not Jenn...but Jenniferfrog doesn't have the same flow...lol
Female (53) Rochester, New York
Experienced submissive/slave I’ve been active in the lifestyle for 5 years. To me, this journey is 90% mental captivate my mind, and everything else will follow naturally. I’ve served in the past and find deep fulfillment in surrender. I’m drawn to courageous, self-aware Dominants who value trust, presence, and the power of true connection. Seeking a strong, grounded Master who understands the depth of this dynamic
Female (37) Rochester, New York
Note: The chest tattoo I had done at end of July 2025 if there's any confusion. Just your wholesome whore next door. I'll be your latest obsession. I give it 2, maybe 3 weeks, tops, before you move on to your new one. My skill set includes falling for the wrong man. I'm a complete audiophile slut. Being vocal and dirty talk is essential.
Female (45) Rochester, New York
I’m looking a mutually beneficial relationship. I’m a switch and a babygirl looking for her daddy. **Desires and Fantasies** It's a secret
Female (40) Rochester, New York
Enjoy outdoors, bonfires, hiking, camping, glamping, horror movies, beach, traveling and reading. Face Sitting Bondage Gag Ball Leash Sadist Being Served⛓️🛐⛓️ Switch (?'s)
Female (49) Rochester, New York
Getting tired of dating apps where men seem exceptional on the first date and then show their true colors. So maybe this will prove to be a good alternative distraction, idk. Currently going through a separation, but a primarily friendly and peaceful one. Looking for new experiences and opportunities. I do 🌶 content for fun, but I have no intention of sharing the link with anyone here, I just like to be up front about it. Not interested in spontaneous hook ups, trading pics, or sexting. Not necessarily looking for a relationship either, but connection first, sex second. Don't slide into my DMs with anything other than respect. Yes we're all here for kink, but a fundamental part of kink culture is respect, imo. If you're not about that, move on. If you're significantly taller than me (over 6', regardless of gender), fit enough to throw me around, respectful enough for me to let you, and confident enough not to feel the need to prove your dominance as soon as we start talking, you might be my type.
Female (36) Rochester, New York
I'm new to all this so please be patient with me 🙏🏻 I'm here to learn new things and meet new people, I'm very outgoing and will try my best to hold a conversation
Female (25) Rochester, New York
I'm in a relationship. Looking for a long term friend who I can have fun with not just a one night stand. Prefer dominant men as I'm very submissive. The more dominant and controlling and possessive you are the better. Make me your property then use your little cum slut however you like.
Female (35) Rochester, New York
I’m a sadistic bitch who loves to beat people but I’m also a sweet little kitten who loves being petted. My sadist side is non-sexual, but my kitten side is sexual. I very rarely bottom. I am married and I LOVE my husband. He is my best friend and the person I want to be with more than anyone. If you are cool with that, then we can be friends. I am not looking for a romantic partner at all. I have AuDHD and can see through peoples bullshit. I don’t like games. If you want something from me be straightforward and I will pay you that same respect. I am always willing to teach people who are new to the BDSM world more about it. On the non kink side, I love to read, I love video games, movies, and books. I like to stay busy and hate being bored, so I'm always on the go. My favorite sport is tennis, but I also like hiking and swimming. Some important things to know about me: -I am a very confident and strong willed woman. -If you don't treat me with respect, then I won't associate with you. Respect is extremely important to me. -I'm a super busy person so if I don't respond to you right away, it's not me being rude, I might just not have enough time to think of a good response. -Personal hygiene is very important to me (as I hope it is for everyone). -I don’t like sex talk aimed at me (dirty talk), it gives me the ick. FAQ No, I will not send you nude photos or have cybersex with you. I’m not into that. No, I will not meet you in private. I only meet people at public events like munches or parties. No, I will not give you my phone number. I have discord and can chat with you there if you don’t want to chat on this app. Yes, I can tell if you haven’t read my bio and are just messaging me the same thing you message every other person on here. I will not respond. I am worth more than a generic message. If you want to see photos of me, go to my Fetlife page. Same name as on here. 420 friendly. if you just want to chill and play Dead By Daylight with me, hit me up 🤙 for the best chance of me responding, please include what you are looking to get out of contacting me (I.e., friendship, mentor, play partner, etc.). Thanks!
Female (31) Rochester, New York
I chew men up and spit them out. 🕷️ A LOT of spice a little nice. I’m interested in men who will get on all 4’s for me. The ones who look unsuspecting. I rarely submit to others. If you can tell me what to do then you can tell me what to do. Sapiosexual.
Female (25) Rochester, New York
Hiii, I'm Sarah. I like being submissive, but I havnt had a lot of experience with BDSM so im not sure about my limits. I'm looking to explore a bit more. Maybe im looking for friends, maybe more!
Female (21) Rochester, New York
I am about 5’2 and on the curvier/BBW side. I love the outdoors, video games,anime and occasionally going out for a drink. 420friendly. But not really anything else (sorry no smokers ) Im looking for well, just someone who is into a more kink related meetups and maybe more social meetups along with that for the long term :)
Female (30) Rochester, New York
Newer slave wanting to be dominated and tamed! Wanting a strict and controlling Daddy. Kinks: choking, gagging, tying up, restraining, ***, degrading, being used as a toy, spanking, rough, hardcore, public, free use
Female (28) Rochester, New York
I'm bi, in some kind of undefinable LTR w/ a guy. Lots of unmet needs. Just looking for WOMEN ONLY for friendship and maybe some fun? I'm a switch who loves to play rough, but with plenty of cuddles and aftercare. I don't drink, but 420 friendly. Just kinda want to see what's out there....
Female (45) Rochester, New York
MF looking for a new female friend to join us and let him watch sometimes. mostly join 😉. Let’s chat and grab a drink 🥃. I can be shy at first but can get very naughty 😈
Female (30) Rochester, New York
I've been told that I'm a little/brat. I make so many decisions throughout my day that when it comes to the bedroom I don't want to have to think about anything. I have very little experience in being tied up. I do absolutely love it. and will be an ass if it's been too long since I've been tied up. um. yeah. I still learning...
Female (41) Rochester, New York
Softness is my spell. But don’t mistake it for weakness — I submit with intention, and I rise with precision. I want a man who earns his authority through devotion, who knows that worship isn’t beneath him — it’s how he ascends. I crave control dressed in reverence. And when I feel adored enough to bloom into power… I’ll take the lead. And you’ll love it. 🇯🇲, Anime, 420, Halloween, Moan collector, I bet I can make you melt first 💋💋
Female (26) Rochester, New York
I have always known I wasn't in to the average sex ways. I wasn't satisfied by average, I wanted different passionate and ropes. I love the idea of being tied up, CNC type topics and I can be a real brat.
Female (33) Rochester, New York
Henlo Ya'll~° I'm Ilia and am looking for fun and new experiences! I am a curvy gal who just wants to explore and enjoy myself. If you like my face and want to get to know me, let's chat!
Female (28) Rochester, New York
I'm not super shy but it takes a while to know me and if we don't have anything in the same interest it's going to take just a bit more to know me, I'm an anime fan I also read books and things on mobile too, I'm here to try and get something serious or to make some friends.
Female (19) Rochester, New York
I don't get along with fascists. interests: natures, hiking, mycology, hula hoops, live music, bread baking, cooking from scratch Turn ons: intuitive, emotional intelligence, stability, wisdom, empathy
Female (41) Rochester, New York
I'm happily married to my Domme/wife and would love to meet some friends, chosen family, and community within the kink sphere, both near and far! I started off as a brat/little and am working on honing my service submission skills. For the vanilla side, I like reading, listening to music, traveling, philosophy and/or spirituality, arts and crafts, and sightseeing.
Female (32) Rochester, New York
married polyamorous cis gendered female looking for another female to dominate me sexually on a casual basis
Female (42) Rochester, New York

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