Experienced submissive/slave I’ve been active in the lifestyle for 5 years. To me, this journey is 90% mental captivate my mind, and everything else will follow naturally. I’ve served in the past and find deep fulfillment in surrender. I’m drawn to courageous, self-aware Dominants who value trust, presence, and the power of true connection. Seeking a strong, grounded Master who understands the depth of this dynamic
Note: The chest tattoo I had done at end of July 2025 if there's any confusion.
Just your wholesome whore next door.
I'll be your latest obsession. I give it 2, maybe 3 weeks, tops, before you move on to your new one.
My skill set includes falling for the wrong man.
I'm a complete audiophile slut. Being vocal and dirty talk is essential.
nerdy hippie nymph with golden retriever energy. ready to put out some good vibes.
please don't call me a "good girl" while we're getting to know each other. that's earned. and it is cringy to get a message that calls me that. you can call me Bambi or Bunny.
I'm a natural sub. looking for my long term kink partner. if you're just interested in fucking and grabbing my hair, move on. I need substance, and I need to trust.
I love having fun, but not at the expense of my or your wellbeing.
curvy, nerdy, love laughing. please be local.
alright, love ya, mean it, byeeeeee.
ps: condoms are super sexy.
READ THIS OR DON'T BOTHER CONTACTING.
I hate to have to say it, but I don't want to waste either of our time if we're not looking for the same things.
Short and thick. 35.
Not looking for anything NSA, FWB, hook-up, or being a 3rd in your relationship. No, I can't be your mommy dom - I'm the submissive one! That said, I'm not a fan of "daddy," but "sir" is nice, or your name.
Discretion is key, hence I don't have any face photos or anything too revealing.
If we hit it off chatting, maybe I will get comfortable enough to send you something or we can meet in person. Please, don't pester me for photos. I'm not here for the photo exchange.
If you don't know who loves orange soda, you're too young or old for me.
Message me if you're interested but please don't be upset with me if I don't immediately reply. I'm not always able to check daily. If we get to chatting and hit it off, I might give you my number instead. If you call me names and get an attitude over this, you'll be blocked and never get that reply. 😊
If you read all this and would like to find out more, please feel free to send me a message and tell me your favorite song for brownie points!
-Looking for doms experienced in:
bondage, degrading, ***, cnc, absolute control, *** deprivation, orgasm denial, temperature play, face fucking, teasing, edging, breath play, pet play, primal play, cage play.
-Must have experience in rigger.
-Only looking for doms within 50 miles, fit body build (I check bmi,) 25-31 age, willing to travel to me for first couple of meetups.
-Not looking for cyber sex.
-Please have a detailed bio and filled out dom sub test.
-If your bio only says "looking for fun" or "bored/horny" I'm probably not gonna respond back. Put some effort in. I'm not interested if you can't show your face.
-I have a cum fetish. I will never say no to watching a cum shot video 😍 I love cum down my throat, inside my pussy stirring it up afterwards, and on my face. Love it when guys want to lick my asshole or suck my toes 🤭 if we fuck, minimum of 3 loads and last an hour 😜
Mostly submissive, but occasionally bossy ;)
Into older men.
**Desires and Fantasies**
Affectionate domination, praise/being called a good girl, breeding, playing in public.
And I lovvve comments on my pictures ☺️
Getting tired of dating apps where men seem exceptional on the first date and then show their true colors. So maybe this will prove to be a good alternative distraction, idk.
Currently going through a separation, but a primarily friendly and peaceful one. Looking for new experiences and opportunities.
I do 🌶 content for fun, but I have no intention of sharing the link with anyone here, I just like to be up front about it.
Not interested in spontaneous hook ups, trading pics, or sexting. Not necessarily looking for a relationship either, but connection first, sex second.
Don't slide into my DMs with anything other than respect. Yes we're all here for kink, but a fundamental part of kink culture is respect, imo. If you're not about that, move on.
If you're significantly taller than me (over 6', regardless of gender), fit enough to throw me around, respectful enough for me to let you, and confident enough not to feel the need to prove your dominance as soon as we start talking, you might be my type.
I'm an adventurous, nerdy, flirty, extroverted gentle Domme who will get inside your head and rearrange the furniture.
I'm an MD who owns their own business (child and adolescent psychiatrist).
Recently widowed so be kind. Cancer sucks.
I adore board games, card games, ttRPGs conventions, reading in general (mostly sci-fi or fantasy, but I have a tendency to set myself reading assignments - finished the driest densest short story collection ever because I told myself I could do it, recently finished Dungeon Crawler Carl even though I hate exposition dumps). Like to get together with friends and watch terrible terrible movies, while providing commentary.
I love museums, restaurants, farmers markets, just exploring new spaces. Weirdly, will walk all day in an unfamiliar city but not super into hiking.
No MAGAs need apply.
I don't get along with fascists.
interests: natures, hiking, mycology, hula hoops, live music, bread baking, cooking from scratch
Turn ons: intuitive, emotional intelligence, stability, wisdom, empathy
well I'm a tattooed, *** loving, artist. and artist of many mediums. I love to cook and bake. I love to explore with food and expirement. I'm shy but quite the kinky little bunny when I'm very kinky when the times right.
Hii. I’m Jenn. I’m new here. Looking for education, guidance, patience. I’m still working on figuring my interests and likes out. *** love help figuring out those kinks! 🥴
I consider myself simple, a bit weird, and silly.
I’m not dominant or bossy. I am shy.
Let’s chat! Laugh, rant, experience.
Hopefully, nice to meet you.
I'm new to all this so please be patient with me 🙏🏻
I'm here to learn new things and meet new people, I'm very outgoing and will try my best to hold a conversation
I am about 5’2 and on the curvier/BBW side.
I love the outdoors, video games,anime and occasionally going out for a drink.
420friendly. But not really anything else (sorry no smokers )
Im looking for well, just someone who is into a more kink related meetups and maybe more social meetups along with that for the long term :)
I don’t have a car and I don’t drive!
6 tattoos and 5 piercing
(The sticky note looking things pictures was a list of things I was thinking for a dream guy 😅)
pet black cat 🐈 her name is Rubi
420 friendly
adhd so…. sparkly squirrel lol 😂
i’m kind of a combination of Megara from Hercules, Harley Quinn, and Sally from the nightmare before Christmas. lol
pleasure sub
🧐
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am I totally confused on the whole that I’m like the unicorn of a lot of because I like giving blowjobs and swallowing and I get off giving you pleasure lol 🤔🤯
I’m a sadistic bitch who loves to beat people but I’m also a sweet little kitten who loves being petted. My sadist side is non-sexual, but my kitten side is sexual. I very rarely bottom.
I am married and I LOVE my husband. He is my best friend and the person I want to be with more than anyone. If you are cool with that, then we can be friends. I am not looking for a romantic partner at all.
I have AuDHD and can see through peoples bullshit. I don’t like games. If you want something from me be straightforward and I will pay you that same respect.
I am always willing to teach people who are new to the BDSM world more about it.
On the non kink side, I love to read, I love video games, movies, and books. I like to stay busy and hate being bored, so I'm always on the go. My favorite sport is tennis, but I also like hiking and swimming.
Some important things to know about me:
-I am a very confident and strong willed woman.
-If you don't treat me with respect, then I won't associate with you. Respect is extremely important to me.
-I'm a super busy person so if I don't respond to you right away, it's not me being rude, I might just not have enough time to think of a good response.
-Personal hygiene is very important to me (as I hope it is for everyone).
-I don’t like sex talk aimed at me (dirty talk), it gives me the ick.
FAQ
No, I will not send you nude photos or have cybersex with you. I’m not into that.
No, I will not meet you in private. I only meet people at public events like munches or parties.
No, I will not give you my phone number. I have discord and can chat with you there if you don’t want to chat on this app.
Yes, I can tell if you haven’t read my bio and are just messaging me the same thing you message every other person on here. I will not respond. I am worth more than a generic message.
If you want to see photos of me, go to my Fetlife page.
Same name as on here.
420 friendly. if you just want to chill and play Dead By Daylight with me, hit me up 🤙
for the best chance of me responding, please include what you are looking to get out of contacting me (I.e., friendship, mentor, play partner, etc.). Thanks!
5’3”
Somewhat bratty, not looking to be tamed
Size queen (in training, I’m realizing my eyes are bigger than my…)
Sub leaning, enjoy domming sometimes BUT
Only once I’ve gotten to know you and I’ve seen that you actually listen to me
Looking for: MF MFM group, train, role play
Enjoy:
Teasing
Groping
Maintenance spanking
Praise
Biting
Public play
Direct and clear communication
Attention, lots and lots of attention
For D/S relationships specifically, looking for a caring daddy dom not a cold sadistic master
Princess>slave
Ways to turn me on:
Reciprocate emotionally and physically (cunnilingus, and for
more than 10 seconds)
Respect boundaries
Don’t make excuses
Good attitude and humility
Empathy, reliability, honesty
Facial hair, shaved business
Dislikes:
Slapping
Spitting
Hard choking
Anal
Throating
Swallowing
***
***
Don’t try to actually harm me
Pet like behavior
Being told to cum on command
Avoid: bitch, cum-(slut, dumpster, etc), whore
Please don’t save loads for me
No sleepovers
Non-negotiable: Must meet in public initially and use condoms
I don’t exchange numbers until Ive met someone in person
Single, kind, mature men only
Don’t have snap, Kik or anything else
If you ask for me to make an exception “just for you”, I will stop responding
Must wash hands, brush teeth and shower before hand
Can share G rated pics, the rest is only shown in person
Prefer ongoing arrangements, not just passing through town, or only available once a month
Experienced submissive/slave I’ve been active in the lifestyle for 5 years. To me, this journey is 90% mental captivate my mind, and everything else will follow naturally. I’ve served in the past and find deep fulfillment in surrender. I’m drawn to courageous, self-aware Dominants who value trust, presence, and the power of true connection. Seeking a strong, grounded Master who understands the depth of this dynamic
Note: The chest tattoo I had done at end of July 2025 if there's any confusion.
Just your wholesome whore next door.
I'll be your latest obsession. I give it 2, maybe 3 weeks, tops, before you move on to your new one.
My skill set includes falling for the wrong man.
I'm a complete audiophile slut. Being vocal and dirty talk is essential.
READ THIS OR DON'T BOTHER CONTACTING.
I hate to have to say it, but I don't want to waste either of our time if we're not looking for the same things.
Short and thick. 35.
Not looking for anything NSA, FWB, hook-up, or being a 3rd in your relationship. No, I can't be your mommy dom - I'm the submissive one! That said, I'm not a fan of "daddy," but "sir" is nice, or your name.
Discretion is key, hence I don't have any face photos or anything too revealing.
If we hit it off chatting, maybe I will get comfortable enough to send you something or we can meet in person. Please, don't pester me for photos. I'm not here for the photo exchange.
If you don't know who loves orange soda, you're too young or old for me.
Message me if you're interested but please don't be upset with me if I don't immediately reply. I'm not always able to check daily. If we get to chatting and hit it off, I might give you my number instead. If you call me names and get an attitude over this, you'll be blocked and never get that reply. 😊
If you read all this and would like to find out more, please feel free to send me a message and tell me your favorite song for brownie points!
I'm an adventurous, nerdy, flirty, extroverted gentle Domme who will get inside your head and rearrange the furniture.
I'm an MD who owns their own business (child and adolescent psychiatrist).
Recently widowed so be kind. Cancer sucks.
I adore board games, card games, ttRPGs conventions, reading in general (mostly sci-fi or fantasy, but I have a tendency to set myself reading assignments - finished the driest densest short story collection ever because I told myself I could do it, recently finished Dungeon Crawler Carl even though I hate exposition dumps). Like to get together with friends and watch terrible terrible movies, while providing commentary.
I love museums, restaurants, farmers markets, just exploring new spaces. Weirdly, will walk all day in an unfamiliar city but not super into hiking.
No MAGAs need apply.
I'm a Black BBW, 5'3", cute face and BIG chest. I'm neurodiverse, leftist, introverted. I'm a sucker for people who buy me flowers 💐
I'm interested in having great conversation, netflix & chill that could lead to more. I love good food and road trips.
Bonus points if you any of these: have/love cats, have a beard, play coop board games and coop video games, have a romantic side, into kink.
Discretion is a must because of my job. I'm married and just beginning to explore ENM; husband is poly and aware and consenting of this profile.
Looking for and open to any of these:
• romantic/emotional connection that leads to a relationship/partnership. I'm open to kitchen table poly
• cuddle buddies that evolve into FWB
• a Dom I can learn with and explore being his sub. especially interested in a soft dom or pleasure dom or sensual dom.
No, you don't have to be all three. Just be clear what you're interested in.
BLM ✊🏿✊🏾✊🏽✊🏼
Queer friendly 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
No right wingers or trumpers 🚫
Getting tired of dating apps where men seem exceptional on the first date and then show their true colors. So maybe this will prove to be a good alternative distraction, idk.
Currently going through a separation, but a primarily friendly and peaceful one. Looking for new experiences and opportunities.
I do 🌶 content for fun, but I have no intention of sharing the link with anyone here, I just like to be up front about it.
Not interested in spontaneous hook ups, trading pics, or sexting. Not necessarily looking for a relationship either, but connection first, sex second.
Don't slide into my DMs with anything other than respect. Yes we're all here for kink, but a fundamental part of kink culture is respect, imo. If you're not about that, move on.
If you're significantly taller than me (over 6', regardless of gender), fit enough to throw me around, respectful enough for me to let you, and confident enough not to feel the need to prove your dominance as soon as we start talking, you might be my type.
I'm new to all this so please be patient with me 🙏🏻
I'm here to learn new things and meet new people, I'm very outgoing and will try my best to hold a conversation
I'm in a relationship. Looking for a long term friend who I can have fun with not just a one night stand. Prefer dominant men as I'm very submissive. The more dominant and controlling and possessive you are the better. Make me your property then use your little cum slut however you like.
I’m a sadistic bitch who loves to beat people but I’m also a sweet little kitten who loves being petted. My sadist side is non-sexual, but my kitten side is sexual. I very rarely bottom.
I am married and I LOVE my husband. He is my best friend and the person I want to be with more than anyone. If you are cool with that, then we can be friends. I am not looking for a romantic partner at all.
I have AuDHD and can see through peoples bullshit. I don’t like games. If you want something from me be straightforward and I will pay you that same respect.
I am always willing to teach people who are new to the BDSM world more about it.
On the non kink side, I love to read, I love video games, movies, and books. I like to stay busy and hate being bored, so I'm always on the go. My favorite sport is tennis, but I also like hiking and swimming.
Some important things to know about me:
-I am a very confident and strong willed woman.
-If you don't treat me with respect, then I won't associate with you. Respect is extremely important to me.
-I'm a super busy person so if I don't respond to you right away, it's not me being rude, I might just not have enough time to think of a good response.
-Personal hygiene is very important to me (as I hope it is for everyone).
-I don’t like sex talk aimed at me (dirty talk), it gives me the ick.
FAQ
No, I will not send you nude photos or have cybersex with you. I’m not into that.
No, I will not meet you in private. I only meet people at public events like munches or parties.
No, I will not give you my phone number. I have discord and can chat with you there if you don’t want to chat on this app.
Yes, I can tell if you haven’t read my bio and are just messaging me the same thing you message every other person on here. I will not respond. I am worth more than a generic message.
If you want to see photos of me, go to my Fetlife page.
Same name as on here.
420 friendly. if you just want to chill and play Dead By Daylight with me, hit me up 🤙
for the best chance of me responding, please include what you are looking to get out of contacting me (I.e., friendship, mentor, play partner, etc.). Thanks!
I chew men up and spit them out. 🕷️
A LOT of spice a little nice.
I’m interested in men who will get on all 4’s for me. The ones who look unsuspecting.
I rarely submit to others. If you can tell me what to do then you can tell me what to do.
Sapiosexual.
Hiii, I'm Sarah. I like being submissive, but I havnt had a lot of experience with BDSM so im not sure about my limits. I'm looking to explore a bit more. Maybe im looking for friends, maybe more!
I am about 5’2 and on the curvier/BBW side.
I love the outdoors, video games,anime and occasionally going out for a drink.
420friendly. But not really anything else (sorry no smokers )
Im looking for well, just someone who is into a more kink related meetups and maybe more social meetups along with that for the long term :)
-Looking for doms experienced in:
bondage, degrading, ***, cnc, absolute control, *** deprivation, orgasm denial, temperature play, face fucking, teasing, edging, breath play, pet play, primal play, cage play.
-Must have experience in rigger.
-Only looking for doms within 50 miles, fit body build (I check bmi,) 25-31 age, willing to travel to me for first couple of meetups.
-Not looking for cyber sex.
-Please have a detailed bio and filled out dom sub test.
-If your bio only says "looking for fun" or "bored/horny" I'm probably not gonna respond back. Put some effort in. I'm not interested if you can't show your face.
-I have a cum fetish. I will never say no to watching a cum shot video 😍 I love cum down my throat, inside my pussy stirring it up afterwards, and on my face. Love it when guys want to lick my asshole or suck my toes 🤭 if we fuck, minimum of 3 loads and last an hour 😜
I don’t have a car and I don’t drive!
6 tattoos and 5 piercing
(The sticky note looking things pictures was a list of things I was thinking for a dream guy 😅)
pet black cat 🐈 her name is Rubi
420 friendly
adhd so…. sparkly squirrel lol 😂
i’m kind of a combination of Megara from Hercules, Harley Quinn, and Sally from the nightmare before Christmas. lol
pleasure sub
🧐
🧐
am I totally confused on the whole that I’m like the unicorn of a lot of because I like giving blowjobs and swallowing and I get off giving you pleasure lol 🤔🤯
I'm bi, in some kind of undefinable LTR w/ a guy. Lots of unmet needs. Just looking for WOMEN ONLY for friendship and maybe some fun? I'm a switch who loves to play rough, but with plenty of cuddles and aftercare. I don't drink, but 420 friendly. Just kinda want to see what's out there....
MF looking for a new female friend to join us and let him watch sometimes. mostly join 😉. Let’s chat and grab a drink 🥃. I can be shy at first but can get very naughty 😈
I've been told that I'm a little/brat. I make so many decisions throughout my day that when it comes to the bedroom I don't want to have to think about anything. I have very little experience in being tied up. I do absolutely love it. and will be an ass if it's been too long since I've been tied up. um. yeah. I still learning...
Softness is my spell.
But don’t mistake it for weakness — I submit with intention, and I rise with precision.
I want a man who earns his authority through devotion, who knows that worship isn’t beneath him — it’s how he ascends.
I crave control dressed in reverence.
And when I feel adored enough to bloom into power…
I’ll take the lead.
And you’ll love it.
🇯🇲, Anime, 420, Halloween, Moan collector, I bet I can make you melt first 💋💋
I have always known I wasn't in to the average sex ways. I wasn't satisfied by average, I wanted different passionate and ropes. I love the idea of being tied up, CNC type topics and I can be a real brat.
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